good conversation.(male/female)

if i write something down and send it to you, how much does it mean? is it a joke, or is it the truth? small talk turns into something more and you know the exact moment that happens, but then it goes back to shits and giggles.  we joke so we can be honest, and some be honest to joke around. we meet people, our intentions range, from time to time and it depends on the kind of person we are and what we are feeling at the time of the conversation.  but what is the intention of the conversation, if your the flirting type? you might just like the attention, but does it mean you want to take that shit to the next level? the physical level? for some i think so and other not. because we are all different, with different intentions.  genuine and honest people, sometimes come off as assholes, and they never want to meet new people cause they know how fake and tasteless most of the population is. but then a change happens within them, its like the werewolf at night. and for most men its called women. they want their attention, they want to talk out they're ass. most men start to be fake because they want to get into the females pants. or maybe the male is really a nice guy and enjoys the company, even if he is not going to get laid. but i really think most guys are dicks and douche bags, they will be "nice" and say all the right things just to make it with the female.